Caring what other people think about you

The balance of caring what other people think about you:

Okay, it’s good so you don’t be a jerk and annoy people, but not good when to gets all the way to the other side of the spectrum when you stop being yourself and try to change yourself for other people. Aka, you don’t know how to be authentic. (To yourself). Everyone has an authenticity they have to discover within themselves.

Or if people make you nervous, that can be negative, like a bad extent, too.