How to know if someone really cares about you

The true signs- well let me tell you when they will all come out.

Honestly it doesn’t even have to be this way, but this is the most telltale sign of knowing.

It is when you are going through the hardest times- or the worst thing that’s ever happened to you.

So say that things are really hard for you.

Well and then, how do you know? You know when these people don’t make a sound, don’t make a peep. Don’t care.

And I’m talking, let’s take it steps further. They actually know, and are fully aware, of the situation you’re in, whatever it may be. They know, and still yet. They know…because they’re supposed to be people that care, right? So they know. But this is how you know…that they actually don’t know. It’s almost like a tutorial lol.

Nothing. No care-edness. Not a “are you okay?,” (Even if, some of these questions, or things that people say, you hate, it still shows they care, right? So if they don’t say anything, but know something’s wrong…that’s how you really know they don’t care, and perhaps, never did!) “I’m sorry.”

Or, additionally, maybe not only do they not care, and you can see that they don’t, but if they even take steps further to make your life difficult. I’m talking, they are fully aware, don’t care, AND don’t care so much that they have no consideration for you at all, actually. Instead of helping you or showing any amount of care, they make your life harder. This isn’t even about reaching out. It’s about bringing you down. Making your life harder, annoying, or what so ever it may be. Even if it’s the most common sense ever to not do these things to you. You’d think, “hmm maybe they’d have some constraint? Some consideration? At least because of what I’m going through?” And if not, then noooooooo. That won’t make a difference.

So sometimes it feels like such a lie, when you hear that someone “does care.” Be aware of when the words, do not match the actions whatsoever. That is the most dangerous of situations. But again, it’s all of these things that can be the most telltale of signs.

1. If you’re going through something hard

2. They are not there for you and they don’t care

3. They don’t say anything and are not there for you in anyway

4. They only make your life harder…?!

Sounds pretty stacked and clear to me. It sucks, but it might be the best way to learn about somebody.

I mean wow, if I had a friend who was going through something hard, I’d want to be understanding. I’d want to be understanding no matter what, actually. And no matter what they’re going through…even if I can’t relate or don’t have the capacity to understand…I’d TRY. I’d see how it’s important to them; how it affects them. Make sure they know I’m there for them, anything they need. And certainly would only want to make them feel better, not to do the opposite of common courtesy, make their life harder. You should never make someone’s life harder. But for God’s sake, at least don’t make it worse when it’s already hard. That is not someone who cares. If anything, that might even be someone who’s trying to sabotage your life, doesn’t care about you, and wants to bring you down with all that’s going on in your life.