Through talking to people, you realize how much you appreciate other people

Have you ever had this…that…through talking to people, you realize just how much you appreciate other people?

And I genuinely don’t mean this in a bashing way towards the first person.

I’ve wrote a blog post about loving people, and how much I love my friends, right?

Sometimes, there’s just this lightbulb moment where when I talk to somebody, I realize just how much I share a special connection with someone else, and how much I love them.

Because it’s just how much certain people understand you.

Because some people, they’ll just never understand you. And that’s just something that you have to accept. So sometimes, when you talk to somebody, maybe they just don’t understand you as well. And you can feel it in your soul. Even if they’re the nicest person ever, it’s just not in the cards for them.

Sometimes when you talk to a person, you can attempt to pour your soul out to them. But, if it’s just not the cards for them to understand you as a person, they just won’t. I think the problem is that they have to accept you. Accept you as a person. And try to understand your perspective. And for some people this is so impossible which is crazy. Who are we, if we don’t understand each other!!

We have to listen to each other, and not have each other’s words go out the other ear. We have to be willing to listen to new perspectives, to try to understand. Conflict will never be resolved without an open mind. The sad part is that it sound so common sense, but genuinely this gets in the way of everday life relationships, people, conversations, and conflict.

Some people not meant to understand you.<Hard reality to accept.

Why? Either, they just can’t for whatever reason? They don’t have an open mind? They don’t want to understand you? They’d rather believe you a villain. That is the truth they’ll accept, even if it’s sad and depressing. And hard. And hurts.

A logical reason I can think of in the way is emotion. Some people, actually probably a lot, are just way too emotional. They cannot move past emotion(do they even see what they’re doing?)

To me, it hurts not to, I always feel like I need to analyze every side, it’s part of being thorough. I will accept when I’m wrong. I like looking from other perspectives. And I enjoy trying to understand. Shutting out sides seems like a dumb idea to me. What sounds even more dumb is using emotion and not ration. And also, not wanting to try to understand and not keeping an open mind. I’d hate to be that way, and I’d hate the pain that that causes to other people. Also not even listening to other people, and just automatically assuming/accepting that you’re right. That would purposely bring pain to me. I’d hate myself if I did that. Unfortunately, other people sometimes don’t care about things as deeply or thoroughly, and will cause you pain. And unfortunately, some people would rather just assume and accept you as a villain and not listen or try to understand your side. I’m not sure why they prefer this option. Like what is nice about it? It would bring me pain to do that someone, but it also brings me pain when people do this to me. So something I feel like I’m getting the short end of the stick in this situation.

I’ve experienced this sensation, when I’m talking to somebody, and mentioning somebody else. Then I’m like, ”damn I really love this person. I really miss them. We really do have a great connection, don’t we? We really do understand each other, don’t we?” And I just feel so grateful, with a full heart. It’ll just hit me like an electron excited struck by a photon of light.